Woman sometimes allow other people to dictate their love lives
They think about what people will or may think about them if they date this person or that person. Not just woman, men as well.
I'm a man, it sometimes feels as if i'm undesirable. I don't know, maybe its my game, or the way I looked, or my personality. The woman I talk to say its not any of those things, but because of my emotions. Walls push people away. Men have walls, but they are more like barriers.
What do woman want from a guy like me? Not in general. I know what they want. Certain woman want certain things.
Some woman want a good-looking guy, who has money, and popularity
Basically the guy that every girl wishes to have
Some girls go for the jerks, the lame dudes, dudes with no swagger, and brainless idiots. Why? Dudes that are disrespectful to them and others. And dudes that make people ponder "why is she with him?"
But for some reason the woman I talk to loved those types of guy with the exception of me.
Maybe I've been going for the wrong type of woman
I like the woman who have very pretty faces and great personalities. With personality, more conversation. I'm a talker, I love woman that love to talk and I can have endless conversations. I want a girl that I may have to say shut up. Because that means I will never get bored. The girls I go after, they went for the losers. The dudes with no education, no swagger, they were probably just attractive or in some cases they just were athletes. Regardless of what postion or what string, any athlete can get any girl.
Sometimes you have to have your heart broken or get hurt in order for yourself to find true love, because if you never know what heartbreak feels like then you'll never know what true love feels like.
Things happen for reasons. You can't change the past. Because changing the past is changing who you are. And if you are not satisfied with who you are, how can you expect someone to fall in love with you. Don't change who you are. Sometimes people change though. Their emotions change, their feelings change. But love is one emotion that never changes. You cannot fall out of love, its impossible, it doesn't happen. Love is unchanging, it can only grow and never wither.
My approach its kinda weird.
When I really care about a girl or give truly damn about a girl.
I think about what I'm gonna say, I think long and hard. I say how I feel. I'm not afraid to express how I feel to a girl when I really like them. But some reason, I lose my words, my mind goes blank. And I end up having to speak from the heart. Love is something you can prepare for. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there and experience love.
I'm scared to approach some girls. I have a tendency to go for the girls that are out of my league. To go for the girls that everyone thinks is the hottest. Because I believe I deserve the best. Just because a woman is out of your league doesn't mean that you're not the man for her. Just because she may be too good for you, doesn't mean that she's not the right one for you. Love is two ways. Love requires two people. Self-love is what people may call selfish. Although you must love yourself in order to be loved. You can't allow what people say dictate your life neither.
My music, is very important, when I've truly needed my music, it has helped me when I'm down. I want to be inspired. Woman inspire me. Writing about how I don't have a girl is hard. Its painful, its sad. I need a girl to inspire me. I'm gonna try to find that girl. I don't understand how some dudes do it though. How they can get any girl they want. I've never ever had a real relationship. I want a relationship. A real relationship is anything past 6 months, never had that.
Woman are confusing. They don't want a clingy man, yet the don't want man who acts like he doesn't care. They feel like its overbearing. But these are the walls that girls build around their hearts. Not woman, but girls. Girls are females who are afraid to accept love, who feel like they shouldn't be love, who get with guys who don't appreciate them. Girls are the ones who fall in love with bastards. Girls are the ones who allow themselves to get hurt by douche bags. Girls get into relationships with men who beat them. Girls fall in love with dudes who don't give a damn about them. Girls are the females who play games.
Woman are females who can accept love. Woman are the mature females that can accept when a man truly loves them. Of course every dude is not made for every girl. But how do we know. I want a chance. Any woman out there willing to take me.
I want a relationship. I need a woman. At this point I don't care what she looks like, her lifestyle. I want sex, yeah, I do. What man doesn't. But to be honest I want sex with a woman I can share both physically and intellectually. Things don't just happen, everything in life is planned.
I don't know how I got to this world, I know my purpose. To spread love through music. To spread love around the world. To not destroy hatred in the world, but to somewhat overpower the existence of hate, because without hate, there is no love.
Love is to hate as up is to down as light is to dark. Their polar opposites, ying and yang. They are important you can eliminate hate because then the world wouldn't function. Discrimination must always exist. Although I do not believe that racism is necessary. Peoples prejudice do make the world it is.
Whats coming on too strong?
Woman say I come on too strong. You compliment a woman too much she thinks you're coming on too strong. You got to be kidding me. If you're really trying to get to know them or meet up with them or text them a lot or call them too much, you're clingy.
I want a girl that enjoys attention, that likes it when you call a lot and want to spend time with them. Yet they won't get mad when you don't call them or want to spend time with them. A girl that loves compliments and appreciates them. A girl who wants me. Who wants do everything with me? I'm not asking for my soulmate, but someone that likes me more or equal to how I like them. Saying I love you to a girl is not good. It causes a girl to be afraid of commitment to not want to be in a relationship because they may not feel the same.
